This year, we Chinese seem to be put in a fix. The clashing of Chinese New Year and Valentine’s Day caused quite a bit of troubles for some.
Traditionally, most people would reserve the first day of Chinese New Year as a day of family. To spend quality time with you blood and kin and celebrate the coming of a new Lunar Year Cycle. The Cycle of the Tiger this year. It is important as this holiday reminds us of our roots. The family we come from and why when we look into the mirror, we see what we see.
And on St. Valentine’s Day, a day of love and courting, we take time off our hectic schedule to stare goo goo eyes with our companion. To reaffirm the love we have for them. An important time for lovers everywhere. Try forgetting or ignoring your companion on this day and the next time you romp in the sack with her/him will be a long long time, in a place far far away.
So the head scratching, hair pulling problem comes. On 14/2/10, when both events occur, who do you spend time with? Try stepping out of the house in a traditional family on the first day of CNY and the next thing that’ll follow you out the door will be a flying chopper, courtesy of the house matron cooking up a feast in the kitchen. Phoning your companion to say that you will not meet up probably means it will be the last time you speak to each other. Of course not everyone is stuck in this situation. Some are free to spent Valentine’s Day with their lovers and return home later to spend time with their family. Or some can just bring their spouses back to meet their family. Perfect time and excuse. ‘Hey baby, I need to spend time with both you and my family today as traditions dictates. Come over, please, to meet your future mother-in-law?’ .
Each individual will have their own solutions for their unique situation caused by this fateful clash. Me? I’m seriously thinking of just saying, hey since I can’t choose. I’ll spend the day sleeping. Celebrate V-day another day and tomorrow will be visiting-family-spending-time-with day.
But even as we all celebrate in our own ways, let’s not forget those who are made to work on this day. Restaurants and other food outlets staying open on the first day of CNY because it is also Valentine’s Day. Without them, you had no way to celebrate out of home. Because, usually, everywhere, shop closes on the first and second day of CNY. Let those retail heroes be remembered.